10 Jul 2024

Modern boyhood is a lonely place

From Afternoons, 3:10 pm on 10 July 2024

Raising three boys  at a time of  heightened scrutiny with ever changing definitions of  masculinity has led  author and culture critic Ruth Whipmann to one conclusion. Modern boyhood is recipe for loneliness.  

She says we've thrown out the norms of manhood in an effort to help boys be more emotionally open, but instead they are shutting down even more.

She seeks guidance from experts and looks at the latest science to help her understand where we are going wrong with raising boys and how we can do better.

Her new book is called Boymom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity. 

Boy Mum bookcover

Boy Mum bookcover Photo: supplied

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