26 Nov 2020

Best of 2020: Parenting

10:33 am on 6 January 2021


From confidence and chores to risk-taking and reflective listening... here are our top ten parenting features of the year.

How to build up confidence in children

Where does self-confidence actually come from? Katy Gosset finds it is a learned behaviour that any of us – parents included - can tap into.

girl with makeup

Photo: Sharon McCutcheon / Unsplash

What to do when children swear

How do you decide what's unacceptable and what to let slide? Katy Gosset takes a look at swearing and its subtleties.

A photo of serious parents berating their teenage son at home

Photo: Iakov Filimonov

Teaching kids to do chores

How do we get children to help out around the house without asking them 100 times? Katy Gosset looks at whether there's a better way.

A photo of a very cute girl wiping the dishes in the kitchen

Photo: Morad HEGUI

Raising teenage boys

The key to staying connected with boys is to understand the challenges brought about by biological changes, says parenting expert Maggie Dent.

A group of teenagers and kids cooling off at Petone Wharf.

Photo: RNZ / Richard Tindiller

Teen risk-taking: forget what you thought you knew

Young people don't believe they are invincible and actually over-estimate risks, says psychiatrist Dr Jess Shatkin.

A boy plays Fortnite.

Photo: AFP

Where can parents get help if their child's dyslexic?

Carla McNeil, director of the website Learning Matters, has advice for what to do if you suspect your child is dyslexic.

Alphabet for kids concept. English letters in disorder on blue background top view.

Photo: 123RF

Parents - stop talking and start listening!

Parents need to learn the skill of reflective listening, education consultant and parenting coach Joseph Driessen says.

Closeup sad little boy being hugged by his mother at home. Parenthood, Love and togetherness concept.

Photo: SIAM

How to help kids develop self-control

A child's ability to control their own behaviour is a key indicator of their wellbeing as adults, according to new research from the Growing Up in New Zealand study.

sour boy

Photo: Izzy Park / Unsplash

The only advice parents will ever need

You don't have to be perfect, you just have to be present, say doctors Tina Payne Bryson and Daniel J Siegel.

mother and son

Photo: Bruno Nascimento / Unsplash

'Bank of Mum and Dad' putting parents at risk

Young people under pressure are turning to the 'Bank of Mum and Dad', research shows, and it can be damaging for their backers.

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Photo: 123rf.com

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