19 Jun 2024

How and when to discuss the tough topics with ageing relatives

From Nine To Noon, 11:33 am on 19 June 2024
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Having conversations with older relatives about ageing, and all that comes with it, can be tough, but necessary.

New Zealand's population is ageing rapidly. Statistics NZ predicts that 26% of people will be over the age of 65 by 2048. And within that 65+ age group, it's estimated one in five people will be above the age of 85.

An Otago University study from 2023 found an increasing number of people are failing to consult their family members fully when deciding to move them into residential care. The survey, on those who had been moved into a home, found the majority did not choose to move, and the decision was made instead by their family or GP following a medical emergency.

So how do we broach those crucial - but sensitive - topics with our loved ones, to help fully prepare them for retirement living, arranging finances, end-of-life care, and death?

Age Concern CEO Karen Billings-Jensen speaks with Kathryn Ryan.