8 Dec 2021

Best of 2021: Relationships

4:56 pm on 28 December 2021

From embracing singledom to navigating a separation to dating in search of 'the one', many of us took a closer look at how we relate this year.

 

Dating in the digital age

When singles sign up to Sasha Madarasz's dating agency, she asks them about offspring, ethnicity and smoking. You can also meet someone "who rocks your world but doesn't necessarily tick any of the boxes", she says.

couple walking on the beach

Photo: Arthur Ogleznev / Unsplash

Why the single life suits me

Despite what social conditioning would have us believe, life as a single woman has validity and value, says British journalist Emma John.

Emma John

Emma John Photo: Supplied

 

Navigating the end of a 33-year relationship

Auckland writer Barbara Relph talks about online dating, the importance of a good lawyer and how much to tell the children.

Barbara Relph

Barbara Relph Photo: Facebook / Barbara Relph

WATCHWiremu's story

More than half a million New Zealanders are directly affected by family violence every year. Wiremu Witana, with the love and support of his parents, has broken this cycle of abuse.

 

How to have 'those' difficult conversations

Anna Sale has made a career out of talking about death, sex and money.

Anna Sale

Anna Sale Photo: supplied

Seven reasons why spouses lie about money

When we think of infidelity our minds go straight to the bedroom, but financial infidelity can be just as devastating.

woman looking in empty wallet

Photo: Andrea / Pexels

LISTEN - The impact of divorce on men

Family mediation is underutilised by New Zealand men who often feel disadvantaged and disempowered by the process.

sad asian man

Photo: Ketut Subiyanto / Pexels

 

Lost love leads to a valuable lesson learned

Australian author Nikki Gemmell was crushed when her fiance jilted her. 30 years on, she reflects on how creative women can lose their own identities in romantic relationships.

Nikki Gemmell

Nikki Gemmell Photo: supplied

There Is No 'I' in Threesome

When filmmaker Jan Oliver Lucks and his girlfriend got engaged, they decided they each could sleep with other people for a year leading up to their wedding. The couple recorded their experience for a  documentary they hoped would make them poster children for an alternative to monogamy - but things didn’t quite go to plan.

 

138 Dates: an epic journey to finding true love

New Zealand entrepreneur Rebekah Campbell seemingly had it all - but she didn't have love, and wanted to start a family. Rebekah set out on an epic adventure that would see her date 138 different men.

New Zealand author Rebekah Campbell

New Zealand author Rebekah Campbell Photo: Supplied

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