Identity

More than half a million New Zealanders are affected by family violence each year. For many, this is handed down generationally. Wiremu, with the support of his parents, broke the cycle of abuse. Video

Those in Rainbow communities are over twice as likely to experience partner violence than their straight counterparts. Sandra shares her story, exploring the challenges faced by Rainbow communities. Video

Almost a victim herself, Debbs shares her story to help illustrate 'coercive control,' a pattern of behaviour designed to exploit, dominate, and imprison women within a relationship. Video

For Lima, who once rejected her Samoan roots in an effort to move on from the horrific abuse she suffered as a child, her faith gave her the strength to forgive, and to share her powerful story. Video

Many victims stay in violent relationships out of fear of their animals being harmed. Pets are a much-loved part of the family, but all too often are caught up in the cycle of violence. Video

Last year, 53,000 women were referred to refuges in New Zealand. Tam was one of those who found herself fleeing from an abusive relationship, but her life changed upon arrival at a refuge. Video

What is day-to-day life like when you're Trans? In this episode, we address one of the biggest fears of parents and whanau - what will the future hold for my transgender loved one? Audio

No matter the age, no matter the space, it is never too late to be the person you are inside. Joe meets a couple of people with very different journeys about what it's like to come out trans later in… Audio

What was life in the Fijian town of Levuka like for two young girls from the Indo-Fijian community? Two elders reflect in a casual conversation switching effortlessly between Hindi, Fijian and… Audio

Performance artist Moe Laga joins James in the shower to talk about getting away, getting a new family and getting blazed. Produced by Charlie Bleakley. Video, Audio

While gender is finally no longer seen as a binary choice in western societies, Pacific cultures have understood this for hundreds of years. Joe finds out what it means to be takatÄpui and fakafifine.

So far we have learned the kids are going to be alright. But what about the parents? The podcast is called Let's Be TRANSparent after all. Audio

One of the very first places you are going with your child on their transition is the Doctor's office. Joe talks to a couple of experts about what to expect.  Audio

Coming out is just the beginning. Now it's time to look at some of the practicalities and some of the first, early stages of transitioning. Joe speaks with Ary Jansen from Rainbow Youth and youth… Audio

Buckle up for Ep #1. Joe talks to the iconic Mary Haddock-Staniland about what to do when someone you love comes out as trans and Joe and Pauline revisit the rocky ride that was his own coming out. Audio

Listen to the trailer for RNZ's brand new podcast Let's be TRANSparent. Audio