By Jeremy Wilkinson, Open Justice reporter of 
The Teachers' Disciplinary Tribunal is concerned that there is no evidence that Seelan Ramiah apologised to his victims. File photo. Photo: 123rf
Warning: This story contains sexualised content
An assistant principal attempted to pursue relationships with three of his students as well as a colleague by sending them naked pictures of himself and trying to give two of them sex toys at school.
Seelandran Ramiah, who goes by Seelan, has had his teaching registration cancelled for the behaviour, which took place at Auckland's James Cook High School between 2020 and 2022.
Full details of Ramiah's offending have been released by the Teachers' Disciplinary Tribunal on Wednesday as it announced his cancellation.
According to the charges, which were admitted at a hearing held on the papers earlier this year, Ramiah began messaging a Year 12 student between 2020 and 2022 telling her that he loved her. He also asked that she keep their communications a secret.
They exchanged thousands of text messages, many of them of a sexual nature.
"I'm in love with your ass," one message from Ramiah reads.
"Send me a pic of every time you weigh yourself," another message to the student reads, despite him knowing she had a history of depression and anxiety, and struggled with her appearance and weight.
Over a similar time period, the teacher also engaged in similar conduct towards a student in her final year of school by asking her to download the app Signal so he could message her privately.
Ramiah also removed the student from one of her classes and brought her to his office where he told her he had had relationships with former students, talked about himself masturbating and asked if she wanted to use a sex toy he had brought with him to school.
Although the student received several messages from Ramiah she did not read them and deleted the app.
A third student also drew Ramiah's attention in 2022. He also asked her to download Signal, where he messaged her telling her she was "beautiful" and "sexy".
He also offered to send the girl photos of himself masturbating and told her that he could teach her to masturbate and had done so to other students.
The student ceased all contact with Ramiah and deleted the app when the sexual nature of the conversations in person and via the app made her uncomfortable.
However, it wasn't just students that drew the unwanted sexual attention of Ramiah after he told a female staff member that he wanted to pursue a relationship with her and commented on her physical appearance as well as telling her what he wanted to do to her sexually.
The man sent his colleague photos of his penis as well as videos of himself masturbating and requested that she send him similar visuals of herself.
Investigation
In May 2022 the school's then principal, Grant McMillan, became aware of Ramiah's interactions with the first student and placed him on discretionary leave before suspending him on full pay pending a full investigation.
The Teachers' Disciplinary Tribunal was then notified and a Complaints Assessment Committee (CAC) charged him with misconduct.
Now, the tribunal has opted to cancel Ramiah's teaching licence, though he has voluntarily withdrawn from the profession as of 2022, and he was ordered to pay $7000 in fines and legal costs.
Ramiah admitted his conduct towards the first student and said there was no way forward but to renounce his teaching certificate and resign from the profession.
In regards to the other two students, Ramiah opted not to respond and claimed that doing so could be seen as him defending his actions.
He maintained that his communications with his female colleague were mutual.
Counsel for the CAC, Elena Mok, said in submissions that Ramiah took advantage of the first student's anxieties in conduct that amounted to "emotional abuse".
"Student A was highly vulnerable due to her young age, body-image issues, and history of self-harm. She entrusted Mr Ramiah with these issues," Mok said in her submissions.
"Mr Ramiah communicated with Student A via text message, exchanging wholly inappropriate and sexualised messages with her, over several months in 2022. The messaging was clearly intended for Mr Ramiah's own sexual gratification, and at the expense of Student A's needs."
Mok said Ramiah initially appeared to show concern for the student's expressions of anxiety and insecurities, but he would then, in the same conversation, proceed to encourage her to engage in messaging about sexual topics and to send nude photographs to him.
"Mr Ramiah put his own interests first in his interactions with these students, abusing his position of authority for his own sexual gratification."
Penalty
The tribunal said Ramiah's conduct was aggravated by him urging the students to keep their communications with him secret, which suggested he was well aware of how inappropriate his conduct was.
"Mr Ramiah's conduct involved more than one student, apparently for his own sexual gratification and regardless of the students' wellbeing."
"He was persistent and forced his demands on the students despite them expressing discomfort."
The tribunal said Ramiah's conduct to each of the young women involved "gross breaches of trust and abuse of his position of responsibility" given he was an assistant principal and had a duty of pastoral care towards his students.
"There was a pattern of behaviour over an extended period with Mr Ramiah pursuing relationships with four young women which he ought to have recognised was wholly inappropriate and contrary to the professional standards expected of registered teachers," the tribunal said.
"There is little evidence that demonstrates that Mr Ramiah fully understands the impact of his conduct on the students and staff member, or the importance of the professional boundary and the seriousness of breaching the boundary."
The tribunal said it was concerned that there was no evidence that Ramiah had apologised to his victims.
He has been approached through his counsel for comment.
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