It Takes A Village

Nine to Noon's Kathryn Ryan interviews parenting experts to help you navigate the trends, trials & tough calls of modern family life.

Hosted by Kathryn Ryan

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In love and war: the benefits of sibling rivalry

Conflict between siblings is normal and can even be helpful, according to author and psychological researcher Naomi White.
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Tips for parenting a disobedient child

Children need limits and should not be top dog in the family, education consultant Joseph Driessen says. He gives practical tips for working with your child to break a cycle of disobedience.
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'We don't grow when we avoid the awkward relationship experiences'

Are you a grown-up? Your relationships are the laboratory in which to find out, mental health counsellor Jenny Brown says.
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Real-time coaching for challenging kids

One of the most effective treatments for 2-to-7-year-olds prone to frequent high-level meltdowns involves teaching parents to rewire the relationship via play therapy, says the woman known as the Toddler Whisperer.
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Minimising the risk of suicide - what can parents do?

Education consultant Nathan Mikaere-Wallis discusses New Zealand's high youth suicide rate and what parents can do to minimise risk.
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An angry child needs you to be calm

Children who react with escalating anger to discipline practices which are usually effective for other kids are having a hardwired fear-based response which is beyond their control, says education consultant Joseph Driessen.
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Keeping kids safe online

Any IT retailer will help you buy parental control software, but the best firewalls are family values and a strong sense of self-worth, cybersecurity expert John Parsons says.
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'Kids with interpersonal skills come from homes where there are rich conversations'

Employers say many of today's graduates are low on innovation, creativity, and interpersonal skills. What can parents do to encourage children to think for themselves? Explore, debate, play and don't focus on academic performance too early, says parenting consultant Nathan Mikaere-Wallis.
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How to nourish your baby

When your baby is around six months old, begin to offer them a combination of finger food and homemade purees, says Dr Julie Bhosale, author of The Nourished Baby.
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Anne Tonner on parenting a child with anorexia

Human rights lawyer Anne Tonner has written an award-winning book about her daughter Chloe's battle with anorexia. Anne talks about Chloe's journey back to health and how the illness affected her family.
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Parenting: 'Lets give fathers a bit of a voice'

Children with an actively involved father are better set up for the future in every respect so it's time families, communities and society at large did more to support men becoming such fathers, says education consultant Joseph Driessen.
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Bi-lingualism in pre-schoolers

Speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses how children acquire two languages, and strategies to support bi-lingualism.
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Children and pets

Psychologist Sarb Johal talks with Kathryn about what relationships with animals add to a child's life and development, as well as their family's.
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Why children need downtime

Parent educator and mentor Mary Willow talks to Kathryn about the need for children to have downtime. She says children are born with the unstoppable urge to 'go get the world', but that comes with a need to rest and digest.
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Ben Awa: Conscious parenting

Ben Awa is on a mission to get dads into what he calls 'conscious parenting'. At Plunket's Improve for Change group in Wainuiomata, dads are working on themselves in order to strengthen relationships with tamariki and whanau.
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